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Wedding
Wedding are special not only for two people who will
be united but for two families. It is such
celebrated with lots of participation of family &
friend's .Bridge cross the old home and enters the
new one and also signifies a new life, new family,
and friends.Groom start life fresh with new hope,
vigour and wait for new bright future along with a
new companion.
It is started when the boy is proposed by the girl's
parents and they ask for his Jamanpatri(Horoscope)
out of 36 Guns (qualities) of the prospective bridge
and groom at least 24 should match. This is done
when both the approach of each other, the girl's
family sends her Jamampatri with yellow Sathiaa
(squire mark) on into the groom's house. To
consolidate and relationship the boy is given a
silver coin, coconut and applied a 'tilak (red dot auspious mark )This custom is known as roka or godh
.Once the engagement is fixed the ceremony of tikka
is performed by the both families. In India nothing
auspicious is done invoking Ganeshji's Blessings. The
first invitation card is sent to him for it is
believed that he will protect all from evil. Songs
from integral parts of the occasion, they denote the
happiness of the family and friends start few days
before the wedding ceremony. Haldi and tel (oil) are
applied on the bridge, this start before 3-5 days
before for the wedding. It is believe that these two
together impart special glow to the bride. There are
certain songs in Rajasthan that meant specially for
these occasion .on the main day mother - in - law
together worship the chalk bhat ( potters wheel )
for happiness of the couple. The decor the venue
consist of illuminated surrounding, floral gates at the entrances and Mandup (canopied platform on which
the ceremony will perform) decorated in flowers and
rangoli.Bride being applied with Mahendi ( heena)
design on her palms and feet wear Traditional
Rajasthani royal dress with langa (long skirts)
small kurta and odhani. The groom dressed in
traditional Shervani ( long jacket ) Churidar ( wrinkled pajama ) Jooties
(Rajasthani shoes ) and pancharangi ( five colours )
Safa ( turban or head gear ) and sword. The marriage
commences with the groom's party proceeding to main
entrances the groom is made to sit on a decorated
horse or elephant. The barat party ( marriage
procession ) is led by local band and musuicaians
with complete marshal torches .On arrival the bridge
father and family members, relatives and friends
will receive the groom and barat party.
The groom touches the totan (an auspicious
decoration) on the door made by wood and flowers
with his swords. This signifies his conquest,
symbolizing power and capability to protect.
Therefore kalsh pooja ( an auspicious pitcher )is
done after the bride family greets the grooms family
with Arti , Tikka , Garlands and escorts them in the
venue, while shipping the drink the Milani & family
greetings is done wherein bridge's and groom's
relatives warmly greet and hug each other, there
after pundit ( priest) announces the commencement of
the marriage ceremony and the bridge And grooms sit
at the mandup. The bridge family member are invited
to witness the ceremony which comprises Indian
customs like Pooja ( prayers) and chanting of
mantras ( religious hymns ) and follows by the final
pheras (seven rounds which are done around the vedi
holy fire ) all these ritual are basically vows of
being together unto death.
The real fun starts during the pheras. When the
groom's shoes are bone of contention between his
relatives and the bridge's. While the latter are on
the look out for shoes so they can hide them and
pinch some money out of the groom, his relatives try
to protect them, and this is basically to create a
friendly ambience for all. A very interesting
customs is shifting of 7 metal plates with sword by
the groom. The bride then tries to put them one on
top of the other without making noise. It is said
more noise more fight in the life. This is once a
life time acces
Wedding Ceremony
Safa Ceremony
01 Royal Baggi run by two horses, the guest will be
seated on the back on the horse carriage For the
family members,
Wedding Procession
Includes:-
One well decorated Elephant for Bride Groom.
Four Horses well decorated.
Four Camels well decorated.
Torch bearers
Local band for the procession
Godi
Arrival at Palace OR Garden
Royal welcome at palace with Red carpet laid up on
the stairs Torches lit up, Decorated camels and
horses, drum beaters, showering of flower petals and
arti tikka garland by traditionally dressed up
girls. Welcome fire works at the main entrance of
the palace.
Royal Chattar and Chanvar and shall greet them with
Welcome Drink (Fruit Punch) . We shall give them the
royal welcome with Dhol and Nagara and Sahanai :-On
arrival of guest there will be a live sahanai and
table music
Royal Chattar and Chanvar means a loud announcement
of the bridge & will be taken under a Royal Chattar
(Umbrella) and Chanvar (Hand Fan) to the seating
Venue (Gujrati Swing) with dhol and Nagara
The groom side will come along with the groom's
family members and then there will be Toran Ceremony
at the gate l the bride side will give them Milni
Malas (Rose / Jasmine to the grooms family members)
Milni garlands & Jaimala
Glass of Indian wine on
arrival
Exotic Flower Decoration at the wedding venue,floral
decoration of mandap with some multi coloured
rangolis Illumination of the Palace with Ferry
lights and Amber lights in the lawns .
Decoration of the venue by natural lights candles
etc.
Priest and pooja materials
Bagpiper Music,Langas,Rajasthani Dances, Fire eaters
and throwers,Puppet show and D.J. with Dance floor
Wedding banquet dinner at Garden includes mineral
water,soft drinks, folk dances & gala fire works.
Palanquin at the time of Bidai (Departure time)
WISH THE BRIDE & GROOM A LONG & VERY HAPPY MARRIED
LIFE
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